It is
simple: Think of others. Do for and to others what you want them do for and to
you.
We are
lonely because all of our thoughts is about ourselves ALONE.
It does not
matter whether you are surrounded by a crowd or you are sitting by yourself, if
your thoughts are about yourself, you are more likely to feel lonely.
Reach out
to somebody, if it is only a smile. It feels good to make others feel good.
A lonely
person can never be as productive as a person who is not. Not because one is
alone and the other is amidst friends, but because one is selfish in his
thoughts and the second is other-centered.
You cannot
create values others are willing to pay for except the values are valuable to
others. Your products (values) cannot be valuable to others if you have never
thought of them.
Overcoming
loneliness is not just about us and our mental health alone, but others and our
productivity also.
It matters
not much how and why you became lonely, especially at your job, what matters is
what do you give out – your reactions.
If your
workplace is full of snobbery and each one seems to be on their own, for your
mental health’s sake, show others you care and you will not feel so lonely
again.
Synergy and
synchro- are not just words without any relevance in our lives. Without them we
cannot talk of harmony. When an organization (the people who made it up
actually) is enjoying harmony, it can keep producing and it will be as timely
as a time piece.
Actually,
organizations whose members are in harmony are more like the wheels in a watch.
If they keep being harmonious, they will keep doing whatever they are doing as
constantly as a watch keeps the time.
This kind
of harmony has its roots in individuals who are others-centered and are not
lonely; individuals who are obedient to the golden rule.
Summarily
again, you overcome loneliness by being in harmony with others; you can be in
harmony with others only by taking proper thought of them, and it is by being
others-centered values are created and value creation means increase
productivity.
This is an INCREDIBLE article!! Thank you sooo much for it! :D I recently got inspired to make a motviational story on loneliness as well, and surely integrated some of your tips in it! :)
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